Xiu Erdai's daily essays

Chapter 1496

06072-win-win, long-term

Me: "From controlling the rules of Yunxia Sect through the Disciplinary Department, to using me as a springboard to control the cultivation world around me, when I make trouble in the Sand League, you also control the movement trend of the Sand League by the way. Wow, you have a clear mind Control the steps of the world, the steps are really stable."

Dad: "The point I want to say is that I protect you and you are protected by me. It is a mutually beneficial thing for both of us."

Me: "I've always believed in this. Although I didn't quite understand what you benefited from it before—in fact, even if you said some of it now, I still understand one-sidedly—but I have always believed, or I am in your The teaching believes that only a win-win relationship can last. For the long-term good relationship between our father and son, you will not let me and you become a one-way flow of interests."

Dad: "Blood relationship is very strange. The accumulation of biological nature and social inertia has created a relationship that cannot be overstated. In most cases, it is difficult for monks to understand that one person sacrifices for another, but if parents sacrifice for their children , or children sacrificed for their parents, then most monks will at least give a verbal sudden realization, saying with emotion 'this sacrifice makes sense'."

Dad: "There is no need for any other additional conditions, just because they are blood relatives, outsiders can understand their mutual protection."

Dad: "With the decline of the cultivation family and the prosperity of the sect, the comprehension world's understanding of blood relationship has expanded to the connection of the same sect. If two people are from the same sect, then even if they were fighting each other one moment, the next moment they can still fight with their backs." Handed over to the other party, there is no need for further explanations, the word 'same door' is like the word 'relative', including all the 'should be so'."

Dad: "This kind of thing should have achieved natural trust, and sometimes it will bring some constraints that people want to escape. The sect tries to avoid unpleasant constraints through the strict elimination of the disciple selection stage, and hopes that all disciples They can enjoy trust with joy. Relatives usually cannot carry out such elimination and screening, but when the cultivation base reaches a certain level and supplemented with specific methods, during the formation stage of the soul of your child, you can control the soul factors that construct the soul of your child. , to carry out multiple rounds of selection like an entrance exam."

06073 - Another form of survival

I digested it for a while, and decided to ask a question that is not the main point, but is very important to me: "Before I was born, you were very satisfied with my son? If my mother gave birth to me, could she not have died before I was born? You also participated in the gestation of me?" Oh, these are two questions.Alas, this is a bad habit of setting the number of problems first and then overturning them immediately.

Dad: "Including the Qi training period, any two human monks are not the responsibility of one person to conceive. It is impossible for one party to hand over the rest of the work to the other after providing a sperm. The higher the cultivation level, the better the pregnancy. The closer the connection between the two is. One of the important bases of the Taoist couple's theory of promoting fertility is this: the Taoist couple is more likely to have a close relationship, and if it is close enough to meet the needs of pregnancy, then it is very likely to be pregnant."

Me: "What does the death of the Taoist companion mean to the person left behind? Is it related to the ceiling of cultivation?"

Dad: "From my experience, whether it will become a ceiling is related to the circumstances of the death of the Taoist companion. If the Taoist companion dies, there is a desire to hope that the Taoist companion will accompany you-it doesn't have to be malicious, it may just be Reluctant to give up—then the convenience of death may become the ceiling of the living person. If the Taoist partner has an emotional rift with the living person when he dies, or even hates the living person, then it may also become the ceiling. "

Me: "Only if you wholeheartedly hope that the living side can continue to live with the dead self, practice hard, and have a bright future, will there be no ceiling?"

Dad: "Sounds harsh? In fact, it can usually be achieved. Taoist couples are as close as one person. Even if one party dies, the other party's Tao may continue in the other party's practice, that is, to achieve the other party. It is a kind of survival. Generally, you don’t want to die when part of yourself is dead and part is still alive. Even if the part that is alive will be seriously injured and painful for a while because of the part that is dead, the wound will heal and you can be better in the future. good."

Me: "What if you are worried that the wound will not heal? Will it be easier to drag the living person to die together?"

Dad: "This kind of worry means that I and my Taoist companion are weak and have no potential for development. Do you think I will doubt my future? Do you think people who become Taoist companions with me like this will doubt their future? ? Even Sun Lijiao, who is troubled by the disadvantages of her spiritual roots, might not be able to walk high slowly and steadily with the aptitude of the four spiritual roots if her injury did not break out."

Dad: "It's like Duan Yanzhou has become more and more convinced of his future."

Me: "When you first joined Yunxia Sect, did you really doubt your future development?"

Dad: "I definitely didn't have it when I became a Taoist companion. If you don't have confidence in yourself, you can't build your own Tao, and there is no Taoist companion."

06074-Casual

Me: "Wait a minute, at least you have to build a prototype of your own Tao before you can have a Taoist companion?"

Dad: "Otherwise, why are they called Taoist couples? Many people can only be regarded as lovers when they hold Taoist couple ceremonies, but after they become Taoist couples in name, they practice together, build their own Tao together, and the relationship between the two Tao is harmoniously intertwined, and this becomes a true Taoist companion."

Me: "Is it so casual to hold the concluding ceremony of Taoist companions? Even those who are not Taoist companions will be issued certificates?"

Dad: "Xie Qinwei and Yuan Jing during the foundation building period, if they both apply, they can also hold a Taoist couple concluding ceremony for them. But if you and Min Lun apply, they will be rejected immediately without delay."

Me: "... Is there still a delay? After receiving the application, at least report it and go through the process?"

Dad: "Do you know how to apply for this ceremony?"

Me: "Xie Qinwei asked his master, and then his master told him that he would help him deal with it, and he just waited for the marriage. But it seems that Yan Gui and Duan Zhe's marriage is an application to the Disciplinary Office? Is there a professional department at all?"

Dad: "There may not be a pair of things in 100 years. Set up a professional department?"

Me: "Didn't two pairs come out in the last 100 years..."

Dad: "Do you think there is still a third pair?"

Xiaodou and Xiaoxing?A funeral is more likely.Or Xiaodou just digs a clothes grave for Xiaoxing.

Father: "The elders and stewards of the sect have a list of people who hope to become Taoist couples. In other words, all the disciples of the sect can see who has been in a long-term and stable relationship. As long as these people apply, no matter which steward or elder The application will be approved immediately and a ceremony will be held. The result of the approval is determined long ago, so any manager or department can reply. Of course, the ceremony must be notified to the material department and other professional departments to prepare. Others who are not on the reserve list of Taoist companions If someone applies, it will be rejected immediately.”

Me: "Is this application process a bit incidental? For example, suppose, if, I am on the list of Taoist companions with... Eldest brother, and then I accidentally tell you that I want to hold a Taoist companion ceremony, but I didn't take it seriously , and you really went to inform me to arrange the ceremony, isn't it too good?"

Dad: "Do you think I can't tell whether you are sincere or nonsense? And why do you think that if you and Jiang Weixiao want to hold a ceremony, you should apply?"

... Isn't it a little dangerous for Min Lun to take Min Lun as an example?You have the assurance that what you say will not be heard by people you don't want to hear, but I don't have the same assurance that what I say does not matter, even if we are talking face to face in the same place.

Me: "Then if you use my brother and I as an example... oh, it still doesn't work, both of you are transparent apprentices, there is no misunderstanding."

Dad: "The point of this matter is actually that the ceremony is unnecessary for the Taoist couple, that is, it is unnecessary for the sect. Therefore, the sect does not need to set up a professional department for the Taoist couple ceremony. When a small number of disciples who are expected to become True Dao Companions wish to have a ceremony, the sect can help arrange it, which is equivalent to a commission, and on the premise that the client's conditions are qualified, the commission is established after asking and paying."

06075-Scale

Dad: "In the past, there were indeed Taoist couples who didn't know which department to apply for the ceremony, and thought that it was just their own business, so they went to the mission department to ask anyone who is willing to help them Hold a beautiful wedding. The task department will pick it up, and then the material department will prepare the celebration gifts, and the layout of the ceremony venue will be mainly handled by the admissions department..."

Me: "Admission Office?"

Dad: "Because the Admissions Office has the most experience in arranging venues. Although the experience in arranging venues for Taoist ceremonies is far less than that of admissions examinations, compared to other departments, the Admissions Office is already a top-notch major. "

Me: "... also, 'recruitment' can be interpreted as recruiting new students, or it can be interpreted as summoning new life."

Me: "Can I see the list of potential Taoist couples in this sect? Which ones are recognized couples?"

Dad: "To experience jealousy?"

Me: "I'm not interested in love, I'm not as interested in sex, and now I don't even have sex... Is the proportion of sex in the middle stage of Huashen Mahayana high?"

Dad: "You can ask if there is one first."

Me: "...Isn't it? None of them? Really? The Hehuan Sect said that except for his disciples, other monks don't necessarily have to experience sex in order to enter a high level of cultivation."

Dad: "You're asking about the proportion of the Mahayana stage of Huashen. Does the Hehuan Sect have a Mahayana stage of Huashen?"

Me: "... Really have to go through it?"

Dad: "Why are you so resistant? Don't you dislike the public's conclusion that you must live forever? Don't you often think about overturning this conclusion?"

Me: "I haven't thought about it often, and I can't say I don't like it after I get used to it. Although their attitudes are so consistent that I am prone to rebellious psychology, but in the end they are just discussing among themselves and have not really interfered with my behavior. If I If I do it cruelly with someone, they won't really stop me, so the key has always been my own mentality."

Me: "And my mentality...why do I use 'hard-hearted' to match 'doing with others'? My psychological defense line is so high that it has become a problem. People who I am close to and trust and can relax with are regarded as My family, the people I have sex with feel like incest, and the rest of the people I can't relax enough to sleep with. It's a dead end."