Xiu Erdai's daily essays

Chapter 1686

06832 - Safety guaranteed

Ji Shan: "Actually, we usually ask children to wash their own tableware after eating. When a child is difficult to wash by himself due to illness or other reasons, other children will help him, so children are very concerned about washing dishes. They are very familiar, even if they need to wash more dishes when they are punished, they will not be at a loss."

Ji Shan: "And we don't really let the punished child wash all by himself, we will watch from the sidelines, and if he is too tired or his hands feel uncomfortable due to soaking in water for a long time, we will terminate the punishment in time. Our punishment never actually hurts the child."

Ji Shan: "The rules of this hospital are relatively strict, but they are all determined after careful research and trials. They pay great attention to protecting children both physically and psychologically..."

Me: "I understand. I didn't mean to suspect improper management here. This kid was emotionally stable when he was punished, and he still suspected that I was a bad person, and was ready to run away or beat me up. After you came, his limbs obviously relaxed. Not much. He trusts here very much, and you have brought him a sense of security."

Ji Shan: "Although our hospital has been accused of not being warm enough, since the establishment of the hospital, there has not been an excessively bad incident here. Whether it is the staff hurting the children or the children bullying each other, there is not a single one. Safety is our responsibility. proud."

Yu Ting: "There are still fights."

Ji Shan: "There are some bruises or skin scratches. There is a back and forth between the beatings. No one's dignity is compromised. When they grow up, both parties can treat this as a joke, not bullying."

Me: "It's called exercising your muscles. Learning to fight from an early age is a good thing, and it's good for cultivating self-protection ability."

Ji Shan: "...No, fighting between mortals and immortals cannot be compared. Fighting is not a daily routine of mortals."

Yu Ting: "Mr. Ji, although I didn't do the washing, the tableware has been cleaned. Can I go back first? If I didn't do it, it doesn't count as my punishment. I can wash it again tomorrow."

Ji Shan: "You go back first. Write your self-criticism. As for whether you want to make up for it or not, it depends on the degree of your self-criticism."

Yu Ting said 'OK', then picked up his gray bag with candle lamps, and left.

After Yu Ting walked away, the faces of the ladies in the kitchen became much more lively, and they looked at me with various expressions such as excitement, surprise, and shyness—they were very serious in front of the children, but they were very good at acting.

06833 - at least no cheating

Maybe my expression of praising their acting skills was too obvious, Ji Shan coughed, asked her colleagues to hold their hands, and then explained to me: "Because if you want all the staff in the orphanage, or at least all the teachers, to treat the children If they are full of motherly love and fatherly love from the heart, then there will be too many staff gaps. And although some people really love, their actual behavior will bring a great psychological burden to the children; some people love in words, and there is no matching Behavior. Emotions are too difficult to quantify, so many orphanages will abandon the emotional requirements when recruiting employees, and only select people based on work attitude and compliance with the rules."

Ji Shan: "As long as you can maintain respect for your children, as long as you can patiently teach them basic life skills, you can love them or not. Even if you can't respect your children from the bottom of your heart, you must respect your salary and be dedicated to your work."

Me: "I know, I have read the information on this. Yu Ting seems to understand your attitude very well."

Ji Shan: "We have clearly told the children these attitudes. Although when they try to place their feelings for their parents on us, we will make them sad, but it is better than the deception that will be exposed sooner or later."

Ji Shan: "We have no way to give them unrequited love, but after getting along for a long time, especially if we get along more happily, then there will still be feelings to some extent. This feeling may not be very strong, but it is true after all. If they Willing to accept, at least this feeling will not hurt them as much as cheating."

Me: "From a rational point of view, this is very reasonable, but can children really understand? Especially those children who have been here since they were babies, when they grow up to understand the meaning of this aspect, they will Could it be that you have placed too much affection on you? At that time, although your rationality and honesty avoided deception, it still became hurt."

Ji Shan: "The younger the children, the easier it is for them to be adopted. After they have adoptive parents, they will naturally have real family members, and they don't need to listen to our explanations. And those who came to the orphanage are already older and are not easy to be adopted. Adopted children, such as Yu Ting, just like this kind of alienated way of getting along."

Ji Shan: "If we say to Yu Ting, 'Don't be afraid, we will protect you, love you, and make you happy', he will just scoff. His previous experience made it difficult for him to trust others deeply; but if we are honest He can accept it more calmly when he says, "Love depends on fate, and basic material conditions can be guaranteed." After accepting it for a long time, trust gradually accumulates."

Ji Shan: "A single model cannot be suitable for everyone. We can only try to reduce the damage as much as possible."

Me: "There are also orphans in the cultivation sect, but after living in the sect for a period of time, those orphans often feel that they are not much different from children with parents. Because even if they have parents, they will be restricted from contacting their parents when they first enter the sect. When there is no restriction, getting along with parents is also outside the sect, and basically does not affect the life inside the sect."

06834- still hold

Me: "On the contrary, it's strange that my relatives, brothers and sisters are all in the same sect, and I get special treatment."

Ji Shan: "Ordinary people and immortals...are quite different in many concepts."

Me: "Yes. So you don't need to carefully explain to me the reasons why you manage the orphanage like this. The results I have seen show that your management is effective. The specific details, the thoughts and feelings of mortal children, are the same as mortal children. You must understand it better than I do. As long as you feel that you have a clear conscience, then continue to do it."

Gui Du, the young girl on Ji Shan’s right, said: “Of course I have a clear conscience. Actually, I don’t like children, but I think I’m more fair than many who say they like them. Although I can’t be particularly good to any child, I do It will not be particularly bad for any child. I have a bowl of water level. In my eyes, all children are the same. I will treat them as the work manual tells me. .”

Me: "If you don't like children, why did you choose to do this?"

Gui Du sighed: "When I was choosing a major, my family thought that this major seemed to be a good wife and mother, and it was easy to make money. After I finished my studies and worked for two years, I was afraid of getting married. God knows that before I went to college, I often Fantasy has sweet love."

Me: "Not getting married and falling in love don't conflict."

Gui Du: "Yeah, even if I can't find a lover I like, I can still chase after stars. Maoxian, can you sign me? It's best to have a signed photo. How much is it? If it's too expensive, I don't want it. "

Me: "Chasing stars rationally is a good habit."

Gui Du: "I have been very rational since I was a child. I am willing to pay half a month's salary for your autographed photo."

Ji Shan: "I'm more emotional than Gui Du, and I'm willing to pay a month's salary."

Then several other people also expressed their willingness to use the salary of "one week", "two months" and "ten days" to exchange autographed photos with me. Everyone bid, and the highest bid reached a year.

I was moved: "I thought I was out of breath, but I didn't expect that there would be so many people cheering me up wherever I went."

"Recently, we have seldom discussed about you, Maoxianren, in various forums. The main reason is that there seems to be no topic that can be discussed enthusiastically. It seems that there is nothing new to say except for routinely praising your beauty, strength, and profoundness. gone."

"But we always remember you. Whenever we see someone mentioning you, we have a sense of familiarity, like seeing news from an old friend."

06835 - Talk about a deal

"Would you be offended if we called you an old friend?"

Me: "No. We communicated a lot indirectly, and you even sent me private messages directly. Although I didn't reply, I read them all, so it can be regarded as direct communication, so we can count them as friends. Those who have simple friendship friend."

"It's this feeling. Although I'm not familiar with it, it just feels very friendly."

"I have been chasing this star for more than ten years, and it has become a part of my life. Of course, it is kind. Although I am not as fanatical as I was when I was a girl, I still feel happy when I see relevant information. I think I can chase forever."

Me: "My pleasure."

"Can we tell the others about seeing you?"

Me: "I don't mind. Now that you tell others that you saw me, it shouldn't attract too much attention, which means it's safe for you. I can accept all of you taking a photo with me, The price is that each person pays the lowest bid just now, which is a week's salary, calculated according to the salary of Imayoshi who said the price."

Me: "In addition, I also need you to pay me a piece of information: the situation of all the children in your hospital. It is the information you tell the adopters when someone wants to adopt them, including the paper and your daily observation. All the children you remember from the founding of the institute to the present are included."

Ji Shan was in a dilemma: "This..."

Me: "I have found your reference room, read all the paper materials, and also the electronic archives, so you only need to supplement your private observations." At this moment, there are still a lot of reading groups running around in the courtyard, Gathering information in the unclassified territory of the mortal world is too easy for me.

Ji Shan: "...In principle, you can't check those materials."

Me: "But even if you sue me, I won't be punished. Although this operation is a bit illegal, it is not to the extent that the mortal world officials feel that it is necessary to negotiate with the cultivation world. Those are not classified as secrets, but if there is adoption Anyone with a child qualification can see it."

Imayoshi: "Actually, I don't mind telling Pei Xianren about the children's private affairs, but it's a pity that I don't have much private observation of the children. In fact, I haven't even been able to call all the children by their names."

Gui Du: "I can call all the children by their names, but at best I can tell which children are more lively and which are quieter, and their preferences for regular games, such as hide-and-seek, basketball, and painting."

Me: "It's okay, you can say whatever you think of, even a sentence or two."

Ji Shan: "You should go with me to see the dean. Although we only regard this as a job, we are responsible for our work after all, and we also have basic ethics. We sell other people's privacy for money. , Changing things, chasing stars, our conscience is still not able to get by."