Xiu Erdai's daily essays

Chapter 2248

09076-Avoidance does not solve the problem

During my stay in Kunlun, I visited a lot of places where the Nascent Soul stage haunted many places, observed their life and training, and carefully avoided Kunlun disciples who looked down on me, and also avoided those who were too sad and might be out of some reason at any time. For those Kunlun disciples who test me for some reasons, try to only have direct contact with those who are pure fans of me and those who don't like detours.

Xin Ge and the elder: "You don't have to be so cautious. Although there are many complicated guys in Kunlun, there are also many people who rely on their own strength and don't play tricks. Especially sword cultivators, even if there is a conflict with you, they will not Easily do yin and yang weird things that make you unhappy."

Me: "Is Kunlun's sword cultivator as free and easy as Jianzong's, and has a strong affinity? He is so capable that he doesn't even ask a question when he sees that his school's big formation is not opened?"

Elder Xin: "This is too much to ask. How many of you Yunxia Sect disciples see that the Yunxia Sect's grand formation is not in operation, how many of you can pretend that nothing happened?"

Me: "I'm definitely not as tolerant to outsiders as I am to my family."

Elder Xin: "Are you really afraid that your visit to Kunlun will end up in a bad mood?"

Me: "Well. The main reason is that I stayed here for a long time this time, and I studied the cultivation methods of the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage too deeply. The behavior was approved by the Kunlun official in advance, and also received a lot of assistance from the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage, but objectively speaking... it is a bit out of bounds. If any Taoist from outside sect came to the Yunxia Sect to closely observe the cultivation methods of the Yunxia Sect disciples, I’m sure I’m going to pick a few words too.”

Elder Xin: "But avoidance is not the solution to the problem after all. You should find a way to fight back. The longer you avoid, the more people will notice your avoidance behavior, and some of them may break it on purpose. Your evasion blocks you and finds fault for you."

Me: "Yes, I also noticed that the area I found for myself in the past two days is obviously smaller than the area I could find when I first came to Kunlun. Some people have begun to compress my activity space intentionally or unintentionally. When the compression At the extreme, either I leave Kunlun, or I have to face this compression and re-expand my movable area."

Elder Xin: "Your maximum movable area in Kunlun is equal to the foreign guest authority granted directly to you by the Kunlun official. Afterwards, this activity space has shrunk, which is the result of your private confrontation with Kunlun disciples—many Kunlun disciples. Private The more you lose in the confrontation, the smaller your actual room for action; on the contrary, if you win all the private confrontations, then you can give full play to the authority granted to you by the Kunlun official."

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Elder Xin: "If you choose not to fight and choose to admit defeat directly, then your space for activities may be reduced to the minimum, or even directly suppressed, that is, you are forced to flee Kunlun."

Me: "Now those who have noticed that I am avoiding seeing them are still testing my avoidance level, avoidance list, and avoidance methods. Before they finish testing, my activity space will not be suppressed. I misled them a little bit. Once, their temptations will take some detours, and then prolong their temptations. If all goes well, their temptations will not end until I finish researching the Kunlun Nascent Soul-level textbooks."

Me: "After I finish researching the business of this trip, I will have free time to confront them head-on. Afterwards, no matter what the outcome of the confrontation is, I can leave Kunlun immediately when my mood slips into unhappiness. .”

Elder Xin: "It's good to have a plan. I hope you can find a way to get along with Kunlun that suits you this time."

Me: "The first sect is really troublesome. When I get along with other sects, I can do things according to my mood. Even if I occasionally conflict with the disciples of that sect, I can resolve it before it affects my mood. I don't have to think too much, because There is enough room for maneuver. But when getting along with Kunlun, there is no coincidence or luck, and the only solution can only be found by strength."

Elder Xin: "Actually, for most people, it's not that complicated. Although they are also annoyed by Kunlun's part of the way, they often choose to endure and stay away from Kunlun after finishing their own affairs. It is a last resort, otherwise I will not deal with Kunlun again. Many small sect disciples consider Kunlun last when they need to ask for help or entrust the big sect to do things, which is also due to this emotional bias."

Elder Xin: "They don't like Kunlun, so they choose to give up borrowing Kunlun's resources unless they are dying."

Elder Xin: "And you are not willing to give up everything in Kunlun just because of emotional problems, and you believe that with the breadth of Kunlun, there must be a part that you can accept, so you choose to find out that part and make that part boring to you. You think that you can not regard Kunlun as a whole in many things, and you think you can borrow parts of Kunlun.”

Me: "It's almost the same idea. But it's more complicated to implement. After all, Kunlun is a real sect and a whole. Although there are many factions in it, there is no complete separation. It may be completely, but I will inevitably encounter some people while avoiding them. Fortunately, I have accumulated information for many years, so I can pinch some of their weaknesses."

09078-Favorites

Elder Xin: "In the past, you were often ridiculed for collecting information indiscriminately, but now you have repeatedly used this information in practice on a large scale. Are you happy?"

Me: "I'm happy. Although pure decorations are also beautiful, if things can be both beautiful and practical, there will be no regrets. But I haven't been able to achieve 'time and again'."

Elder Xin: "The head has been opened, after that it's just a matter of familiarity. Is the sword master afraid that he won't be able to practice a movement that he has already learned?"

Me: "I haven't been pissed off by Kunlun disciples yet, you don't seem to need to coax me so...gentlely?"

Elder Xin: "If you successfully find a suitable mode of getting along with Kunlun this time, then it will be difficult for Kunlun to really make you feel down in the future, and it will become more and more difficult. At the same time, it will be difficult for Kunlun to deliberately guide you to be happy. You You will control your emotions when getting along with Kunlun in your own hands, and you will only be happy or unhappy for the resources that Kunlun actually traded to you, and you will not consider the attitude of some of Kunlun's disciples towards you. "

Elder Xin: "Since there will be no more opportunities to brush up bad feelings and good feelings in the future, then I will try to brush up good feelings one last time before your self-control experiment is over and you are still uncertain about it, and try to get your good feelings towards you. My emotions are placed in the positive range, no matter what your attitude towards Kunlun is in the future, you will be friendly to me."

Me: "...Mahayana stage, so careful and careful to get a favorability degree for a Nascent Soul stage?"

Elder Xin: "Take a long-term view. If you are in the Mahayana period in the future, then my current investment will be very valuable. The Mahayana period does not mind investing in advance for something that will happen thousands of years later."

Me: "Emotional matters, even if you invest now, can you continue the current plan after waiting for thousands of years? Emotions may change suddenly. Sometimes it is as difficult to figure out as epiphany."

Elder Xin: "Is what I'm doing now to invest in your feelings expensive?"

Me: "It took... a little brain work?"

Elder Xin: "That can be used as self-training. If you can't find something to think about every day, like Peng Qinru, you want to get drunk and die, that's bad."

Me: "Oh, so this behavior not only invested in my feelings, but also activated your brain, which means you earned nothing and paid nothing?"

Elder Xin: "You can put it this way. As long as you are doing something you are interested in doing, it is not a contribution to Gao Xiuwei. Even if I give you a ticket to a secret realm, or simply give you a newborn that I made Small secret realm, as long as I'm happy, I don't feel bad. Because the resources I consume to get tickets to the secret realm and create a small secret realm can be replaced by the spiritual power you consume to refine a Tongming fruit. It’s not rare to mention it specially.”

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Me: "Is it possible to save money by making a small secret realm?"

Elder Xin: "Every amusement house in Peiyue Passenger Garden can be regarded as a small secret place. All you need to do is to find the skills to dismantle the amusement house. I'm not sure what technique is suitable for you, but I can tell you Guaranteed, there must be more than one technique that allows you to do this with extremely low resource consumption."

Me: "Is it cheaper than the method Pu Yu Lingbao taught me?"

Elder Xin: "The method taught by others cannot really suit you. Any method or thing that deserves the word "best" for you must be researched and formulated by yourself. You can teach it in Puyu Lingbao. Make changes based on your method. When you change it to the point where you can use it smoothly, you will find that the final plan you transform is so different from the original plan of Pu Yu Lingbao that there is almost no connection."

Me: "Wow, Elder Xin, your coaxing skills are really good. Your words are enough to make me endure the deliberate finding of faults by Kunlun disciples for a long time..."

Elder Xin: "What does Ren do? Your goal should be to not have to endure. Also, I hope that you will give back to me every detail of the labor I have paid, and not put it on any random disciple in Kunlun."

Me: "Okay, I've made a note of your love."

Elder Xin: "Emotions change quickly, let's do something immediately."

Me: "...for example?"

Elder Xin: "Take a picture together."

Me: "You are really... sticking to the same hobby for a long time, very firm."

Elder Xin: "Do you agree?"

Me: "OK."

Elder Xin: "Are you smiling when taking pictures?"

Me: "Okay."

Elder Xin: "Oh, you said that if you had agreed so happily the first time I asked you this request, how could I have thought about it for so long?"

Me: "If you made me happy before asking for the first time, why would I screw with a senior like you?"

Elder Xin: "I didn't know that Pei Ji could raise you so...more tempered than himself."

Me: "My father should be more arrogant than me when he was young, right?"

Elder Xin: "When Pei Ji was young, it was true that he shouted and played with his temper more than you did, but you know that too much anger often means that you lack confidence, feel weak in your heart, and feel that you are powerless. You You seldom speak loudly to people, and you often emphasize that you should be justified when you hate someone, but the root of your calmness is that you are confident that those who pick on you can’t really hurt you. Now your father can do this The reason why he is always expressionless is that he is more confident than when he was young."